LoVing YOU from a Distance…
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we LoVe, we fail to recognize & appreciate the people who LoVe us.
We miss out on so many beautiful things & simply because we allow ourselves to been slaved by our own selfish concerns.
Go for the man of deeds & not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you LoVe but the man who LoVes you more.
The best LoVers are those who are capable of LoVing from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the
LoVe deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn’t mean you have to stop LoVing, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back.
Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, & anger that keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength & weaken your faith & never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it.
You may found peace in just LoVing someone from a distance not expecting anything in return.
But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow.
We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace & happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice & beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person.
This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives & eventually consumes our thoughts & actions
The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship.
We start our desperate attempt to get noticed & be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded & we end up being sorry for ourselves.
You don’t have to forget someone you LoVe.
What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.
Believe me; you would be better off giving that dedication & LoVe to someone more deserving.
Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible & let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow:
If you lose LoVe that doesn’t mean that you failed in LoVe.
Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt & the bitterness that the past has left with you.
Let go of yesterday & LoVe will find its way back to you & when it does, pray that it may be the LoVe that will stay & last a lifetime.
Sigh!
I am still learning…
One of my concept & principle in Life which can be found in my humble website www.adventurerali.com :
You do not LoVe a Woman because she is Beautiful…
She is Beautiful because you LoVe her…
Life is Beautiful…
Take care & GOD Bless…
Just me,
aLi
A Strong Believer on a World Without Strangers…
“Probably, the Most Travelled & Adventured Malay Individual in the world…”
August 18th, 2008 at 9:55 am
Salaam Ali
Wow, that was increadible brother,
I agree with you completely!
:) katee
August 28th, 2008 at 2:24 pm
Hallo Ali…
Happy to meet you here….
You are so strong outside as well as inside…
Your words are inspiring….
I like them! Especially on this page.
Thank you so much for sharing…
I’m so proud, happy and lucky to know you…
Always looking forward to read your next interesting news…
Send you my deepest hug my brother,
Winnie
September 6th, 2008 at 1:30 am
Dear Ali,
Love is always fresh and green ..
in winter, spring or summer.
Love needs no season bro….
This kind of love are hard to find
as the world has corrupted the mind of the people that material gains are the driving force.
For me I dont need reason to love..its a gift from GOD the day He say that I shall love .. I just love lah
the day He says its over.. i cried and move on but will never erase the memory that of those that i used to love.
They made me the person i am today whether bad or good.. I am made of my past..and history is my life..
From history (them) i learn not to repeat the same mistakes again, from them I learn to love freely , from them I learn to love and take the pain, from them I learn to shut up when i have to shut up, from them i learn to give when i dont have , from them i learn to put a deaf ears, from them i learn to love the next one better…
Love is the core existence of all beings..
every one is created with love and embedded with so much love to give..
the only confusion here is how to love and be loved..
In the Quran it is said - Warahmah and Warahdah..u love and u forgive and continue loving and continue to forgive..
but when it starts to hurt.. i moved on and remember the good things that i have learned from them..and learn to love better