My Journey in Life...


My Journey in Life...29 Aug 2008 09:31 pm

Salamz & Greetings,
Alhamdulillah! [Thank GOD!]…
We are given the opportunity to meet Ramadan again this year Insya’ALLAH…
However, I will be away from home this Ramadan to serve the Nation in military service for almost 2 weeks plus…
This will be my 4th army in-camp in Fasting Month of Ramadan…
Alhamdulillah…

Nevertheless, I hope this note discovers you in Perfect Faith & Health

Allow me to speak on behalf of my Singaporean brother who is given the chance to pursue his studies in PhD in Oxford University.
He was my National University of Singapore [NUS] ’s friend & was offered to do PhD in Politics at St. Antony’s College in Oxford.
However, he has some difficulties to get scholarship to finance the course.
If you do have any contacts or want to help/advice Bro Abdillah just write to him at a_noh@yahoo.com

In addition, I have written a few journals from my latest Mega Globe-Trotting trip in June – July 2008.
Feel free to login & explore roads less travelled … with aDvenTuReR aLi…

Czech Republic :
http://www.adventurerali.com/czech-republic/3rd-wedding-in-3-years-consecutively-in-czech-repub.html

Norway :
http://www.adventurerali.com/norway/my-beautiful-host-in-geilo-3.html

Finland :
http://www.adventurerali.com/finland/jumping-ship-in-finland.html

Sweden :
http://www.adventurerali.com/sweden/my-lovely-god-family-in-sweden.html

Sri Lanka :
http://www.adventurerali.com/sri-lanka/finding-my-foot-prints-in-colombo.html

Last, but not least. Allow me to take this opportunity to seek Forgiveness on ANY wrongdoings
Maaf Zahir Batin…

May ALLAH SWT Accepts our deeds & Shower us HIS Blessings on us & families…
Amiin..

Below is an article received from a Sister on
10 great goals to set for this Ramadan
8/22/2008 - Religious Family Interfaith - Article Ref: SV0808-3647

Eat, drink and be moderate
Almost all of us do it - once Iftar time hits, we just keep eating food and drink into our mouths till it’s hard to move afterwards. And those of us who do it know this is totally contrary to the spirit of Ramadan, through which we’re supposed to learn self-control not self-indulgence. Let’s try to stick to the Prophetic rule on eating: fill our stomachs with one-third food, one-third water and one-third breathing space, even in Ramadan.

Give a dollar a day in charity…or five or ten
The Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, was always generous but even more so in Ramadan. Let’s open our hearts and dig a little deeper in our wallets this year. Even less than a dollar a day adds up. Whatever you can give, it’s the intention that counts.

Memorize 4 new Surahs
Memorizing the Quran often seems like a daunting task. But the key is doing it in small bites. Since there are four weeks in Ramadan, try to memorize one new Surah a week. Start off with a short, easy one. Once you’ve started, you’ll build momentum and may even want to memorize a longer one the following week.

Go to Terawih prayers
Post-Iftar, the first urge is to sleep after an exhausting day. But try your best to head out to the mosque for Terawih prayers. Praying alone is wonderful, but doing it in congregation is fantastic. The community spirit is part of Ramadan’s blessings. Don’t miss it this year. If going every day is not possible, try going at least once week.
Attend the Terawih prayer in which the recitation of the Quran will be finished
Call the local mosque and find out which day the Imam will be finishing the recitation of the Quran in prayer. Attend to not only hear part of the Quran’s recitation in prayer, but also participate in the heart-rending Duas that follow it.

Stop swearing and/or backbiting with a special box
It’s hard not to shoot our mouths off when someone’s upset us. Whether we utter those four-letter words or backbite about someone to our family and friends, we know this isn’t the God-approved way of letting off steam. In Ramadan, when we want to build our spirituality, we’ve got to wage Jihad against our bad habits.

Try this: get a box and every time you catch yourself swearing or backbiting put some money in it. It could be a buck or less. The point is to choose an amount that makes it feel like punishment.
At the end of the month send the money to a charity or buy a gift for the person whom you’ve backbitten the most against.

Call/email your relatives
You’d think that given the easy access to email, competitive long-distance calling rates, phone cards, etc. these days, we’d keep in touch with family and friends more often. But the opposite seems to be the case, as we get caught up in life’s “busyness.”

Strengthening ties with family members and keeping in touch with friends is part of our way of life and an act Allah is very pleased with. This Ramadan, call family and friends or at least email them a Ramadan card and ask them how their fasting is going.

Go on a technology diet
Even if you work in the IT industry, you can do this. Avoid checking personal email and surfing the web during your fast. After Iftar, instead of plopping yourself in front of the screen, go to Terawih. The same goes for the television. The point is to try to give our full attention to spiritual elevation this month.

Read 5 minutes of Quran a day…just five, not more, not less
Even if you feel you’ve got absolutely no time, set a timer or the alarm on your cell phone and find a relatively quiet place. You can read the first page of the Quran you open or follow a sequence. The choice is yours. The point is simply to connect with God through His revelation in the month of the Quran.

Forgive everyone who has hurt you
Still got a festering wound from the fight with your friend last year? Still upset about something your spouse said during a heated argument? Or are you still bitter about the way your parents sometimes treated you as a kid? Let go of the anger and pain this Ramadan and forgive those who have hurt you. Forgiving someone is not only good for the body, but it’s also great for the soul. And in Ramadan, ten days of which are devoted to Allah’s forgiveness, shouldn’t we lesser beings forgive too?

If you find it very difficult to forgive everyone, forgive at least three people.
Happy Ramadan!!!

Take care & GOD Bless
Life is Beautiful…

Just me,
Bro aLi
www.adventurerali.com
A Strong Believer in a World Without Strangers…

My Journey in Life...17 Aug 2008 04:17 pm

LoVing YOU from a Distance…

 

Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we LoVe, we fail to recognize & appreciate the people who LoVe us.

We miss out on so many beautiful things & simply because we allow ourselves to been slaved by our own selfish concerns.

Go for the man of deeds & not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you LoVe but the man who LoVes you more.

 

The best LoVers are those who are capable of LoVing from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the

LoVe deep within your being.

 

To let go of someone doesn’t mean you have to stop LoVing, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back.

Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, & anger that keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength & weaken your faith & never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it.

 

You may found peace in just LoVing someone from a distance not expecting anything in return.

But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow.

We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace & happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.

 

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice & beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person.

This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives & eventually consumes our thoughts & actions

 

The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just a friendship.

We start our desperate attempt to get noticed & be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded & we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You don’t have to forget someone you LoVe.

What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.

 

Believe me; you would be better off giving that dedication & LoVe to someone more deserving.

Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible & let your mind speak for itself.

Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.

Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow:

 

If you lose LoVe that doesn’t mean that you failed in LoVe.

Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt & the bitterness that the past has left with you.

Let go of yesterday & LoVe will find its way back to you & when it does, pray that it may be the LoVe that will stay & last a lifetime.

 

Sigh!

I am still learning…

 

One of my concept & principle in Life which can be found in my humble website www.adventurerali.com :

 

You do not LoVe a Woman because she is Beautiful…

She is Beautiful because you LoVe her…

 

Life is Beautiful…

Take care &  GOD Bless…

 

Just me,

aLi

www.adventurerali.com

A Strong Believer on a World Without Strangers…

 “Probably, the Most Travelled & Adventured Malay Individual in the world…”  

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