Thought of The Day: Adjust To Life…
A man & his girlfriend were married.
It was a large celebration.
All of their friends & family came to see the lovely ceremony & to partake of the festivities & celebrations.
A wonderful time was had by all.
The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown & the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo.
Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal:
“I read in a magazine a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage.” she offered.
“Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person.
Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together & make our lives happier together.”
The husband agreed, so each of them went to a separate room in the house & thought of the things that annoyed them about the other.
They thought about this question for the rest of the day & wrote down what they came up with.
The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
“I’ll start,” offered the wife.
She took out her list.
It had many items on it enough to fill 3 pages, in fact.
As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes.
“What’s wrong?” she asked.
“Nothing” the husband replied, “keep reading your lists.”
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband.
She neatly placed her list on the table & folded her hands over top of it.
“Now, you read your list & then we’ll talk about the things on both of our lists.” She said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, “I don’t have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are.
I don’t want you to change anything for me.
You are lovely and wonderful & I wouldn’t want to try & change anything about you.”
The wife, touched by his honesty & the depth of his love for her & his acceptance of her, turned her head & wept.
Thought of the day:
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed & annoyed.
We don’t really have to go looking for them.
We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light & promise.
Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, & see the wondrous things before us?
I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST WHEN we see & praise the good & try our best to forget the bad.
Nobody’s perfect but we can find perfect ness in them to change the way we see them.
I am still learning…
Life is Beautiful…
Take care & GOD Bless…
Thanx & Warmest Regards.
Just me,
aLi
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